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12/11/2009 CM ---THE MOTHER'S DEATHscars remind us where we've been.they don't have to dictate where we're going.
what lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared what lies within us. W.S.Gilbert wrote."It's love that makes the world go around." and if it's true ,then the world spun a little faster with Haley in it. Haley was my best friend since we were in high school.We certainly had our struggles,but if there's one thing we agreed on unconditionally,it was our love and commitment to our son Jack.Haley's love for jack was joyous and fierce.That fierceness is why she isn't here today.A mother's lobe is an unrivaled force of nature,and we can all learn much from the way Haley lived her life.Haley's death causes each of us to stop and take stock of our lives.To measure who we are and what we've became.I don't have all those answers for myself,But i know who Haley was,She was the woman who died,protecting the child we brought into this world together and I will make sure that jack grows up knowing who his mother was and how she loved and protected him and how much I loved her.If Haley were with us today,she would ask us not to wourn her death but to celebrate her life.She would tell us to love our families unconditionally and to hold them close because in the end,they are all that matter.I met Haley at the tryouts of our high school's production of " The Pirates of Penzance" I found our copy of the play and was looking through it the other night,and i came upon a passage that seemed appropriate for this moment. oh dry the glistening tear that dews that martial cheek thy loving children hear in them thy comfort seek with sympathetic care their arms around thee creep for oh they cannot bear to see their father weep
music:ain't no sunshine http://you.video.sina.com.cn/b/8432117-1224637147.html
11/22/2009 cornI nibbleing a corn,that's one of the best delicious corn i have ever met....
Food is very important for me ,it can satisfy me ,make me happy and bliss.
Lately there were a lot things happened,i don't write it down that's not because i don't want to share,i just can't figure it out what thing is the best importent.
We always want to prevent something bad happen,so we pay a lot of time to discriminate what thing we will regret it. we want to take the right choice,but choose pay more time for think about it that also is a choice.
all of the things also have the two way. none of them is absolutly correct or wrong. to err is human.if you don't try to do the fault ,how do you find it out that's the wrong way?
just like someone said ,when the life closed one door, there is another door waiting for you .
I knew i have the bad mood lately,terrible sleep.i truely hope time will prove everything.
 music:oxygen---coco
11/14/2009 we always survivedpeace...Isn't a permanent state.It exists in moment...fleeting...Gone before we even knew it was there.
We can experience it at any time...In the stranger's act to kindness...A task that requires complete focus...Or simply the comfort of an old routine. Every day, we all experience these moments of peace.The trick is to know when they're happening.So that we can embrace them, live in them... But hey,There is always a way. When things look like there's no way, There is a way.
To do the impossible, to survive the unsurvivable...There's always a way.
I think the people have this in common. We'r inspired.
In the face of the impossible, we're inspired.
So if I can offer one piece of advice to you ...
Today if you become frightened...Instead become inspired.
They say, the bigger you investment the bigger you return.
But you have to be willing to take a chance. You have to understand...you might lose it all.
But if you dream that chance, if you invest wisely... The pay off might just surprise you. And sometimes...The answer we get just confirms our worst fears.
But sometimes...It can shed new light on the problem... Make you see it in a whole new way. After all the opinions have been heard... And every point of view has been considered... You finally find...What you were after...The truth. But the truth isn't where it ends. That's just where you begin again... With a whole new set of questions.  music:be on you
10/29/2009 JudgmentIt is in our nature to judge the people around us.
We judge the way strangers dress
The way our neighbors tend their lawns
And the way our friends act in public.
Yes, we make these judgments all the time
Never thinking that one day we may be judged ourselves.
It is in our nature to judge the people around us.
If they ignore our wishes,we believe they are disrespectful.
If they don't watch their children, we conclude they are unfit parents.
If we catch them cheating, we assume we know their reasons.
But what happens when we finally stop for a moment to judge our won lives?
It can be painful to step back and see what we've been doing.
And even more painful to realize we have no intention of stopping.
 10/15/2009 The second day in TurkeyI am too tired to write , just P a picture in here.
the sky in so blue and clean .
the view is so beautiful.
 9/29/2009 Boudoir talking....Female loved communication,no matter what age they are.
because they have patient, available to listening, and the important thing is they are full of sympathy.
Females are more or less have some girlfriends.
they talk about everyting, share every feeling.
sometimes they can give a lot of advice to helf you throught the difficult time.
almost time when you feel so terrible they can keep by your side, accompany you, comfort you.
Famales are more or less have some girlfriends,the best friends.
maybe petty much people disagree that,because they thought the male can be the best friends.
so i have to point out it's very different between best friend and good friend.
i truely thought the male can be the good friend,but not the best friend.
because the famale has the boudoir talking.
it isn't just gossip,it's about deep inside.
and sometimes it kind of evil, we'll judge everything we don't agree and judge every person who make us fell uncomfortable.
also sometimes it about the secret,about personal. like family problem,money and sex.
that can't share all of thing with man .
Boudoir talking is good for us,but the most important rule is don't let any detail in it gets out.
especially for man.
man always said the mind in a women like the needle in the ocean.
mystery has it's charm I still hope so.
9/26/2009 Five Stages Of GriefAccording to Elizabeth Kubler.Ross,when we are dying or have suffered a catastrophic loss,we all move through five distinct stages of grief.We go into denial,because the loss is so unthinkable.We can't imagine it's true.we become angry with everyone, angry with survivors, angry with ourselves. Then we bargain,we beg,we plead, we offer everything we have, we offer up our souls, in exchang for just one more day.When the bargaining has failed and the anger is too hard to maintain, we fall in depression, despair, until finally we have to accept that we have done everything we can.We let go. We let go and move into acceptance.
There is an appointed time for evetything,and a time for every affair under the heavens.
A time to be born and a time to die.
A time to plant and a time to uproot the plant.
A time to kill and a time to heal.
A time to tear down and a time to build.
A time to weep and and a time to laugh.
A time to mourn and a time to dance.
A time to cast away stones and a time to gather stones together.
A time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing.
Grief may be a thing we all have in common,but looks different on everyone.
It isn't just death we have to grieve, it's life...it's loss...it's change.
and when we wonder why it has to suck so much sometimes,has to hurt so bad.
the thing we gonna try to remember is that it can be turn on a dime.
that's how you stay alive.
when it hurts so much you can't breathe,that's how you survive...
by remembering that one day, somehow ...impossibly...it won't feel this way and won't hurt this much.
grief comes in its own time for everyone,and its own way.
so the best we can do ,the best anyone can do,is try for honesty.
the really crappy thing,the very worst part of grief, is that you can't cantrol it.
the best we can do is try to let ourselves feel it when it comes...and let it go when we can
the very worst part is that the minute you think you're past it,it's starts all over again.
and always, every time... it takes your breath away.
there are five stages of grief. they look different on all of us.the there are always five...
denial...anger...bargaining...depression...acceptance...
 music:piece by piece
9/17/2009 HOW THE INDEPENDENCE COST?Growing up means one thing--- independence.
We all want it. Sometimes we use other people to try to get it for ourselves. Sometimes we find it in each other. Sometimes our independence comes at the cost of something esle. and that cost can be high.  Spearhead - Ganja Babe I wanna make it slow 9/2/2009 cake and pieIf you ever received the chocolate cake , how happness gift you received.and the true is I'm the lucky one .
that's the first chocolate cake I have form my adorable friend who really like baking .
 And the really yummy durian pie ....
tasting and smelling is so good....
 music:http://6621.com/Music/F49129A68.html
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